7 Ideas to Help You Enjoy Cooking With Your Toddler

Many of us have seen joyful social media posts showing a parent and toddler happily cooking a delicious meal together in the kitchen. The activity looks so fun and fulfilling. How can we facilitate an experience like this with our toddlers? Here are 7 things to consider as you start to spend time in the kitchen with your little one. 

The Benefits of Cooking with Your Child

Cooking with kids benefits children in many ways: it helps introduce literacy, math and social skills, and supports physical development (Say Yes to Childcare 2023). Looking at a recipe and talking about what words and letters you see, and talking about the pictures helps children begin to learn to read. Children practice math skills by counting and measuring ingredients. Children can practice social skills as you talk with your child about what you are doing and why. Children also learn to practice the skills of taking turns and working together to complete a task.

Hands-on tasks like scrubbing vegetables or kneading bread dough will help your child develop their fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination in a fun way.

According to Josten at Dietitian Meets Mom, you can start modeling cooking to your child when they can sit in a highchair. By age 2, most children are ready to start participating in cooking activities with you.

Cooking with your child also helps encourage healthy eating and lessens picky eating. Cooking activities foster curiosity about healthy ingredients, and give children pride about creating their own nutritious meals.

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Teaching Food and Knife Safety to Toddlers

It's great to start teaching your child at a young age about knife and food safety. It is important to teach kitchen skills that are developmentally appropriate for your toddler. Your toddler needs to be taught safety skills like washing hands, wiping the work space, what foods we need to rinse before we cook with them, to avoid hot surfaces, and to be careful with kitchen knives. Teach children where the "kid-free" zones are in your kitchen, like around the stove and oven. Children should always be supervised in the kitchen, even if they know how to be safe.

You can introduce children to different kitchen tools for them to start becoming familiar. Let them play with measuring cups and spoons, pots, or a colander to start learning about kitchen equipment and tools.

Use kid-friendly knives and equipment to ensure that your child has a safe and enjoyable session in the kitchen. Let your child practice using their child-friendly knife to cut soft foods like bananas and avocados (Children's Health 2026).

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Set Realistic Expectations for Cooking Together

It is important to have realistic expectations about cooking with your child so that it's an enjoyable experience for everyone. You will have to teach them how to behave around kitchen equipment and raw ingredients.

Heather, from Happy Kids Kitchen, shares that instead of being task focused, we should welcome our kids to be part of our lives in the kitchen.

You don't need to cook with your child every day. If they (or you!) are having a grumpy day, skip the cooking time to keep it a fun experience.

You should expect that cooking with your toddler will be messy, so plan time for cleanup.

Start small and keep sessions short. Your child doesn't need to be involved in every aspect of creating a recipe. Even 10 minutes can be a great amount of time for your toddler to actively engage in a cooking task, according to Nemours Kids Health.

Offer Age Appropriate Activities

Cooking offers great opportunities for your child to learn. Cooking together can facilitate literacy and math skills. Working in the kitchen can be a great way for your child to practice fine motor skills. Cooking together can also teach your child about healthy eating.

Ask your child questions about what you are doing together:

• What ingredients do you need and how much?
• What do you need to do to prepare for cooking?
• What is the first step?
• Why do you need to wash your fresh produce before you use it?
• What colors are the ingredients?
• What are the ingredients' textures? Are they soft or hard, wet or dry?

Your child will love to help you prepare family meals. They can wash produce, spread toppings on crackers, help pour ingredients into a bowl, stir ingredients, roll cookie dough or bread. Here are some ideas for age appropriate cooking tasks your 2, 3, 4, and 5 year old can help with.

Cooking with your toddler will be messy. Make sure you have time to clean up, and dress your child in clothes you don't mind getting messy or invest in an apron for your child.

Cooking is a Fun Sensory Experience

Cooking together with your toddler can be a fun sensory experience as your toddler sees, touches, smells, and tastes different textures and colors of food. Your toddler can use all 5 senses to experience your recipe ingredients.

Allow your child to smell spices and herbs. Let your child knead bread or mash bananas with their fingers. Talk about the colors of different food items or color a picture of an ingredient you used to cook with. Listen to the sound of ingredients combining in a bowl or, from a safe distance, sizzling ingredients in a pan on the stove. Give your child a taste of something you are cooking.

If you are using an ingredient that is safe for your toddler to play with, you could give them a bowl to explore while you prepare the meal. For example, let your child play with a bowl of carrot peelings or berries (Happy Kids Kitchen 2020). As the popular saying goes, a child's work is to play. Inviting your child to safely play with you in the kitchen is a great way for them to explore the world.

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Include Your Toddler in Your Daily Tasks

Toddlers want to be included in your activities. Cooking and spending time together in the kitchen is a great way to bond with your toddler. Children can help you pick ingredients at the grocery store or farmers' market. They can also help you assemble the dish at home. Cooking with children is a great way to spend quality time together.

Cooking is a great way to form lasting family memories and practice new and old family food traditions. Is there a special recipe your family has passed down that you want to teach your child? Do you have a favorite food that you want to teach your child about? Maybe your toddler has a favorite food that you can cook together for your family. Maybe you want to practice healthy eating and learn new food skills along with your child!

Cooking with your kids can help them feel involved in family decisions and help your kids develop a healthy relationship with food.

Cooking Fosters Your Child's Creativity

Cooking is an important life skill and also a great way to express creativity. Cook with familiar and unfamiliar ingredients with your toddler. Cook with a variety of textures and colors. Allow your child to pick which recipe you create. For example, let them choose which kind of fruit to put in the fruit salad or which kind of berries to add to the muffins. Your child could arrange vegetables or cheese on a charcuterie board.

Give your child a choice for how they complete a task, like mashing bananas for banana bread. They can choose to mash bananas with their hands, or with a spoon. Have your child choose between two tasks to give them some ownership over the cooking process. It could be a simple choice. For example, do they want to wash the grapes, or pick them off the stems to add to the bowl? Giving your child choices about the cooking process will help them feel included.

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Keeping Your Perspective

Bethany from Toddler Test Kitchen writes that her most important tips for cooking with toddlers are to know what your goal is, and to celebrate your toddler for what they accomplish (Toddlers Test Kitchen 2018).

Think about what your goal is before you begin. Is your goal to make a meal? Enjoy a fun activity together? Give your child a different sensory experience? Introduce your child to new foods? Build a bond? Knowing what your goal is will help you decide what's most important to focus on and how to set expectations, both for your child and yourself.

If your goal is to cook a specific recipe, you might have your child watch you from a learning tower or play in the kitchen with some child-safe kitchen tools while you cook. Or you might let them pour an ingredient into the bowl with your help. If your goal is to enjoy a fun activity together, you might choose not to worry when some egg shell ends up in the batter or the floor gets a bit messy. Or maybe your goal is to give your toddler a sensory experience, and you let them touch or smell every ingredient (with safety in mind of course- they should not touch raw meat or eggs) and worry less about whether the ingredients make it into the recipe at all.

Knowing what your purpose is for the activity can help you keep perspective on what is most important to you and help keep a calm kitchen environment.

Kid Friendly Recipes

• Banana Oat Pancakes
• Sugar Free Pumpkin Muffins
• Rainbow Smoothies
• Cinnamon Applesauce Muffins
• Banana Swirl
• Cucumber and Peach Salad

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